(The transitional phases of an individual in spiritual development are (soul age): Nurtured, Adulted, Parented, Guardianed and Familied)

Diana's individual spiritual age is called the Parented Spirit. At this age the spiritual self, compared to a person's life span, is a young adolescent. Still living under the "watchful eye" of the Divine parent, the Parented Spirit is inherently involved with camaraderie, achievement, success and recreation. The Parented Spirit resembles an older adolescent craving social interactions and stimuli, preparing to leave the protective nest of the family.

Diana's first trait determined how she made choices. In balance, this trait gave her a strong desire to stabalize all aspects of her life. Because of that pull, Diana's goals focused on the equilibrium between motherhood, attention to her nation, charity work and responsibility to her husband. Without effort to achieve balance in one's life, those with this trait in excess can become lifeless--at times lacking the desire to work towards stability and only existing. Through Diana's much publicized life, depression and immobilizing mental turmoil threatened at times her very existence.

We all have one primary personality type that we continue to develop throughout all our lives on earth. Diana's primary personality type is called the Helping One. A Helping One, from the green Blending Ray, acts as a passive assembler to integrate the multiple levels of a dynamic population. As a Helping One, Diana became an icon as the commoner's princess. Even though raised with wealth and ceremony, her qualities of congeniality, enthusiasm, fun loving and unforgettable charm immediately put everyone at ease. As a Helping One, her main purpose through this green ray was to assist others in their path, thus fulfilling her own.

In balance, this trait allowed her to be a passive listener assisting people with soothing participation. People of the green ray have a special awareness for animals, social issues, the environment, sports, physical fitness, music and outdoor activities. A person's individual spiritual age can also determine the outlook and the method of participation involved with their interests.

In excess, this primary trait can lead to confused thoughts and tasks scattered in many unnecessary directions. As a Helping One in balance, Diana would be a calming non-threatening symbol for the people. Portraying a less dominant personality type, individuals with this green ray can exhibit shyness. Shyness was a challenge throughout her life. Eating disorders, such as Bulimia and Anorexia, are found more frequently in Helping Ones. Helping One's, like Diana who had episodes of Bulimia, can be passive and have difficulty sticking up for themselves or expressing their inner feelings. This repression can lead to quiet forms of verbal and physical rebellion.

This trait determines abilities, produces discipline in one's life and the gift of established routines.

In balance, Diana set up a system that permitted her to accomplish many great tasks: traveling the globe, writing letters, calling on friends, serving her charities and dressing with stylized grace that became her signature trademark.

In excess, this trait becomes too restricted, limiting her scope to see another route. Her need for a routine that could not be achieved through her unhappy marriage and the "Diana phenomenon" of the people and media often led to a lack of control and unanswered cries for help.

Diana's fourth personality trait , which promotes measure, focused attention on her own interests, thus becoming the best resource. In turn, these interests helped others through her involvement. She concentrated on her own pleasures by relating to people and brought the world closer to their needs (balance). In excess, this trait can cause extreme desire for material possessions. Though at times her financial and lifestyle pursuit became extreme, she freed herself more of this longing later in her life, thus balancing this trait as she grew wiser regarding her life's path.

When combined with the next two traits, this measuring mannerism, in balance, gave Diana her heightened sense of serving. A desire to give through serving affects almost every thought of this individual. Starting at an early age, she would visit the elderly and mental asylum once a week on her own. She loved tending to those less fortunate. In excess, lack of self focus can occur. It is easier for those with this trait to habitually aid other's needs and ignore their own, sometimes leading to periods of low self esteem and self neglect. In severe cases, people can physically abuse their bodies when they lose sight of the fact that their health is important, as Diana did on occasion.

This is a somewhat rare trait that defines your direction, allowing you to throughly understand the needs of those around you. Diana, when acting in balance, was blessed by compassion and thoughtfulness that truly made her deeply indentify with each person's pain as well as joy. When in excess, Diana could excessively relate to others and "tune into" their moods, sucking her spirit, bringing her stress without reprieve.

The sixth trait heightened her awareness and allowed Diana to feel with intensity.
Her final trait let her make decisions from the heart and enabled her to connect with the feelings of others. Diana's balanced trait embraced all those requiring care, even breaking the barriers associated with AIDS, leprosy, and those maimed from land mines. Her deep concern for each individual taught the world for which we will be forever blessed. However, when feelings in excess are absorbed and left unresolved we can become mentally, physically and spiritually ill. Do not wear the burden of excess feelings, but give them back through empathy.